In 2008, Congress passed House Resolution 1499, designating the third week of October as
National Estate Planning Awareness Week. There is no better time to begin your estate planning
preparation or touch base with your loved ones about their estate plans. According to
Caring.com’s 2019 survey, 76 percent of respondents believe that having estate planning
documents, such as a will or a trust, is important, but 57 percent of respondents in the United
States have not prepared any estate planning documents. Too often, people neglect estate
planning out of fear or procrastination, or they mistakenly believe it is not necessary because
they do not have many assets.
Why should you have an estate plan?
An estate plan can provide significant peace of mind by ensuring your assets are protected, plans
are in place in the event you become ill or incapacitated, and your property is passed down
according to your wishes.
What key topics should you consider?
- Do you have a last will and testament and/or a trust? If you do not have these important
documents, state law will determine who will inherit your property — and thus it may not
occur in the way you would have chosen. In addition, someone appointed by the court,
instead of a trusted person of your choosing, will be in charge of caring for any children
or pets. Spelling out your wishes in a will or trust will also prevent unnecessary
confusion, anxiety, and expense for other family members when you are gone.
- Have a proper power of attorney and advance health care directive been prepared? A
financial durable power of attorney will allow you to designate an individual to make
financial and property decisions for you should you become unable to handle your own
affairs. An advance health care directive (AHCD) enables you to designate a person you
trust to make medical decisions for you when you are otherwise unable to speak for
yourself. An AHCD also memorializes your wishes concerning your end of life care,
such as whether you would like to receive life support if you are in a vegetative state or
- Do you have insurance? If you become incapacitated or die, it is important for your
family or loved ones to have information about your insurance (such as life, health,
disability, long-term care, etc.) so that claims can be filed.
- Compile a list of all of your accounts and other important information, including bank
and investment accounts, titles to vehicles and homes, credit card accounts or loans,
digital accounts (such as Facebook, LinkedIn, and Twitter) and passwords, Social
Security cards, passports and birth certificates, which may be needed to manage your
property when you are incapacitated or to settle your estate once you are gone. This
information should be kept in a safe place and shared only with trusted family members
or loved ones.
- A list of legal, financial, and medical professionals who have performed services for
you is also important. The list should include their contact information so your family can
easily reach them in the event their help is needed if you become disabled or die. If
desired, you should also ensure HIPAA authorizations are in place with medical
professionals to ensure your family members are able to obtain needed information.
How should you encourage your family members to create an estate plan?
Estate Planning Awareness Week is a great opportunity not only to take steps to make sure your
own estate plan is in place, but also to talk to your family members, especially elderly parents,
about creating an estate plan. Estate planning is often a difficult topic to broach, as it brings up
unpleasant topics, such as aging and death. Here are a few tips to help you start the conversation:
- Be sensitive to your family members’ feelings. Put yourself in their shoes, and keep in
mind that few people are eager to dwell on the subject of their own death. One way to
begin the conversation is to talk first about the need to plan for an illness and to provide
instructions in the event they become too ill to communicate with doctors or handle
financial matters for themselves. The conversation can then naturally progress to the
importance of having an estate plan that will enable their assets to be transferred in the
way they wish, provide for the care of any dependents or pets, and minimize any taxes,
court costs, and legal fees. Communicate that you are not trying to control their decisions,
but only want to ensure that their own wishes regarding their medical care and their
property are known—and putting these instructions in writing will guarantee their wishes
are carried out.
- Involve other family members in the conversation. If you are planning to speak to
your parents about the need for an estate plan, it is important to try to include any siblings
in the discussion to avoid giving the impression that you are trying to influence or control
your parents’ choices. You and your siblings should emphasize to your parents that none
of you are asking about what you will inherit, but just want to make sure that their wishes
are carried out if they become ill or pass away.
Consult an estate planning attorney. Our experienced estate planning attorneys at Laughlin
Legal, PC can help you and your family members create an estate plan tailored to meet each of
your unique needs and carry out your wishes — or help you update a pre-existing estate plan. We
can provide each family member with guidance and information about the options available to
them. We can help you put a plan in place that will prevent unnecessary stress, legal expenses
and taxes, uneven inheritances, disputes between family members, and delays in passing life
savings on to loved ones. In addition, it will provide you and your family members with the
peace of mind that comes with knowing there are plans in place for your care if any of you
becomes ill and that your wishes will be honored once you pass away.
In addition to estate planning, we provide holistic elder law services, including asset protection,
planning for long-term care, and elder law mediation to help you and your family resolve
disputes about the care of your elderly relative. Please contact us if you would like to discuss
creating or updating your estate plan.